Jan 23: the events of the day are stressful, but you quickly realize just how much mettle you're made of. show the world what you can do when beleaguered by worries and you'll impress someone who later offers you a high-paying job.
there is this web site - www.learningtoloveyou.com - and there are assignments for people to do and then they post there results. I think i'm going to take some of the ideas for assignments on this web site until i start to develop my own. also if anyone has any suggestions let me know! i would love to hear them!
the first assignment i'm going to take on is "saying goodbye"(from learning to love you):
Sometimes it's hard to say goodbye. It just feels easier to keep holding on. But in the long run it's usually a good idea to let go, it's the daring thing to do. It allows room for new things, for transformation. And maybe the goodbye isn't even forever, but you can't know until you really say goodbye and mean it. In some cases, goodbye is really the end, and good riddance! For this assignment, say goodbye to all the things you need to let go of: bad habits, dead people, alive people, ex-boyfriends and girlfriends, self-destructive feelings and behaviors, jobs, projects, re-occuring thoughts, etc.
Write it as a simple list:
Goodbye Bill.
Goodbye wetting the bed.
Good bye interrupting people when they are talking.
etc.
It can be as long or as short as you like. And, most importantly, take a moment with each one to really say goodbye. This isn't a catalogue of your fears and faults, this is a ceremony to bid them farewell.
Write it as a simple list:
Goodbye Bill.
Goodbye wetting the bed.
Good bye interrupting people when they are talking.
etc.
It can be as long or as short as you like. And, most importantly, take a moment with each one to really say goodbye. This isn't a catalogue of your fears and faults, this is a ceremony to bid them farewell.
Funny things that i've noticed today:
-do you know how people in doctors offices sometimes use the word "ok" to often.. and they always sound like they are being sincerely un-sincere about it? or talking down to you. cant STAND that! but it seems like every doctors office has at least one of those people.
-liz feels as if she needs to compete with my GPS. for some reason she thinks she is a better navigator then it. so when its talking and tells me to turn left and i'm stuck at a red light she'll say things like... "well maybe if we could turn left.." or "well maybe if we weren't at a red light!" and when we arrive places and the GPS tells us were arriving to them she says things like "we know!".... sometimes i imagine her wrestling with it! or strangling the talking voice that comes from the small box.
if you are referring to liz hardy that sounds exactly like her! hahahaa
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